Seth Palansky: What it Means to Be a "Big"
This was the first time in my life that I committed to a regular volunteer program and was unsure whether I could provide the time and energy required. The last thing I wanted to do was get involved with something where I would end up disappointing someone who really wanted and needed the program. With incredible case managers, well-designed activities and organized and pre-planned structure, I feel like I cheated the program. I just showed up, spent a couple hours every couple of weeks with my "Little" and the rest just happened. We hit it off from the start. My "Little" Josh was bright, kind and full of energy and enthusiasm. It was reinvigorating for me. To hear his stories, to learn about his likes and dislikes, and problems and passions really left an indelible mark. Having no children of my own, one of the reasons I got involved with the program was to help better prepare me for when I do. Also, moving to New York recently and leaving many friends and family behind, the program provided me an opportunity to fill a void left when I didn't get to see my nieces and nephews and brothers and sisters regularly. This program does all that and a whole lot more. You truly find out how rewarding it is to give a little of your time and effort. I left each visit with my Little feeling fortunate. Fortunate that I was given the opportunity to get involved and to be able to have an impact on someone who needs the nurturing and positive role models it takes to succeed in life. But, I can't reinforce this enough - what you really get out of the Big Brothers Big Sisters NYC program - is a sense of accomplishment in yourself.